"The only one who should have to pay for a bad relationship is the person in your next relationship." - Miranda (Sex and the City)
There is no better time to watch this Sex and the City episode than the present. Carrie's question... "How much knowledge of your steady's past relationships is too much?" Amy's husband invites his exes (all freakin' 5000 of them) to their kids' birthday parties. Miriam and her husband look at pictures of him and his exes together as they do some Spring cleaning.
Amy says, "The past is the past." But from my experience, the past came back into the present and became the future. So how do you know for sure that the "ex-file" has been safely closed and locked behind him?
People have scars. In all sorts of unexpected places. Like secret roadmaps of their personal histories. Diagrams of all their old wounds. Most of our wounds heal, leaving nothing behind but a scar. But some of them don't. Some wounds we carry with us everywhere and though the cut's long gone, the pain still lingers. - Grey's Anatomy (Because I'm not eloquent enough to say something like that.)
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Thursday, July 10, 2008
House of Love...
(This part made me cry at work. I'm so professional. =D)
One of her superstar mutts from the quake zone was a small, brown, short-haired terrier with alert brown eyes named "Qianjin," or "Forward." Rescuers said Forward and another dog — a shelty named "Guai Guai" — belonged to an elderly woman who was partially buried in rubble at a Buddhist temple that collapsed in the city of Pengzhou. The dogs stayed with their master while she was trapped for 196 hours (8 days).
"The rescuers told me the dogs were drinking rain water, then they would lick their owner's lips to help keep her from getting too dehydrated," Chen said.

I love my JoJo and Lexie.
(This part made me cry at work. I'm so professional. =D)
One of her superstar mutts from the quake zone was a small, brown, short-haired terrier with alert brown eyes named "Qianjin," or "Forward." Rescuers said Forward and another dog — a shelty named "Guai Guai" — belonged to an elderly woman who was partially buried in rubble at a Buddhist temple that collapsed in the city of Pengzhou. The dogs stayed with their master while she was trapped for 196 hours (8 days).
"The rescuers told me the dogs were drinking rain water, then they would lick their owner's lips to help keep her from getting too dehydrated," Chen said.

I love my JoJo and Lexie.
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
I so sleepy. Mixture of the pho we had for lunch and coming home late last night.
Shelby and I picked Evan up for some good ol' ice cream from Rite-Aid (or as some Old Farts would call it...Thriftys ice-cream).

Then home for some soccer playing. It was fun. I'm sure it was fun for him, watching me chase that damn soccer ball as it rolled down the hill and then stuck underneath a car 5 houses down. Mario Party on the Wii was next after I was wiped out. Evan's actually pretty good. Damn. He won me a few times when I was actually trying to win. How sad! I got beat by a 5 year old!! =P
Okay, exercising with Amy tonight after work. Next time I run after that damn soccer ball, I will not be out of breath. I'm out of shape, man.
Shelby and I picked Evan up for some good ol' ice cream from Rite-Aid (or as some Old Farts would call it...Thriftys ice-cream).

Then home for some soccer playing. It was fun. I'm sure it was fun for him, watching me chase that damn soccer ball as it rolled down the hill and then stuck underneath a car 5 houses down. Mario Party on the Wii was next after I was wiped out. Evan's actually pretty good. Damn. He won me a few times when I was actually trying to win. How sad! I got beat by a 5 year old!! =P
Okay, exercising with Amy tonight after work. Next time I run after that damn soccer ball, I will not be out of breath. I'm out of shape, man.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Monday, June 30, 2008
Sunday, June 29, 2008
I can't sleep. It's 10:39 and I should be snoring away already. I think it was the 2 bottles of Lipton Green Tea that I had at the bbq. Who knows. Those things are yummy. So here I am, sitting in my PJs (or am I?...heehee...just kidding!), Wedding Singer on the telly, typing away. They say ignorance is bliss. And in some cases, it is. Then maybe I can sleep tonight.
On a lighter note, we're back from our trip to San Francisco! It was a fantastic trip that we did not want to leave. Just a couple more days! If only...heehee! Pictures to come if SOMEONE can figure out how to properly share pictures between accounts on this computer. Till then!
Oh, and a little song from the Wedding Singer...
Robbie hart (singing):
I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
All I wanna do is grow old with you
I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you
I’ll miss youI’ll kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold
I’ll need youI’ll feed you
Even let ya hold the remote control
So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
I could be the man who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you
On a lighter note, we're back from our trip to San Francisco! It was a fantastic trip that we did not want to leave. Just a couple more days! If only...heehee! Pictures to come if SOMEONE can figure out how to properly share pictures between accounts on this computer. Till then!
Oh, and a little song from the Wedding Singer...
Robbie hart (singing):
I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
All I wanna do is grow old with you
I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you
I’ll miss youI’ll kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold
I’ll need youI’ll feed you
Even let ya hold the remote control
So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
I could be the man who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you
Thursday, June 19, 2008
FINALLY...time for me!
Lexie and I went over to pick up Paige and Evan for a little trip to the park. Or rather, parkS...Barnes to play a little till and to practice riding their bikes. After a few almost-run-ins with the trees and a big group of people (Evan on bike), we decided to go to Highland park to practice riding their two-wheelers.
Some Ce Fiore (sp?) frozen yogurt after the park...original flavor with blueberries...MmmMmmmm....
and a picture while Paige was using the restroom...
"Evan, give JeJe a normal picture...1-2-3!"
"How about a SMILE then!"
Until next week!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Maybe I'll come knock on your window...
He never made it to the window, but he was pretty damn close somewhere along Hay St. A phone call and a few turns later, he was in front of my Grandma's house. It was a great surprise.
We picked up some Starbucks and Boston Market. Went on a little drive as he attempted to take us home the backway. Hung out in my room for a little bit till we both had to turn in for the night.
It was a great night.
He never made it to the window, but he was pretty damn close somewhere along Hay St. A phone call and a few turns later, he was in front of my Grandma's house. It was a great surprise.
We picked up some Starbucks and Boston Market. Went on a little drive as he attempted to take us home the backway. Hung out in my room for a little bit till we both had to turn in for the night.
It was a great night.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
I'm in Stockton right now. Josh's grandma was diagnosed with bone cancer a month ago and wasn't given much time. We came down on Friday to see her and was told it was down to 48 hours, so we ended up staying. She was surrounded by so many family and friends, who sang her favorite song..."That's Amore" to her by her bed. She passed away at home on Monday.
We'll be coming home on Friday night.
So much has been going on. So much to think about. So many decisions. So many personal things going on.
I'm about to explode.
We'll be coming home on Friday night.
So much has been going on. So much to think about. So many decisions. So many personal things going on.
I'm about to explode.